Memories of Melissa

Last night, I attended a memorial service, in memory of Melissa, an amazing person, music teacher, choral director from upstate New York, who was only 48 years old when she passed. I didn't know Melissa personally but she is the sister and sister-in-law of two of my wonderful friends. Thanks to her devoted family, the memorial service, which they clearly defined as a "celebration of her life," gave me a glimpse into the Melissa's life. While her life may have been cut short by cancer, there was no shortage of inspiration coming from this beautiful soul. She inspired her family and inspired hundreds of students to follow their musical dreams and to "sing out loud."

From beginning to end, the whole service was very touching, especially when Lee, stood at her piano and, in honor of her sister-in-law, belted out Rent's "365 Days" in her beautiful voice. When the pastor read the passage written by Jack, Melissa's sister, I couldn't hold back the tears. He made mention that, as a result of his sister's loss, "sorrow had become a friend." But he also added that he wasn't going to let sorrow become a permanent visitor. Even during this very difficult time, they were going to let peace and love move them forward.

As I listened to stories about Melissa, I thought to myself, how amazing is she! She loved music and shared that love with countless people. Melissa wasn't an observer but a "doer." She lived and loved life with passion. She touched people's lives in a remarkable way!

When it is our time on earth has ended, what will people remember us by? What will we leave behind in terms of memories? Did we celebrate our lives to the best of our ability? Did we contribute to society and to each other in a positive way? Like Melissa, will we leave behind an indelible mark?

Whether you're young or old, it's never too late to make a difference. It's never too late to live out loud, love out loud and sing out loud!