Thursday, April 15, 2010

sad

One of my best friends lost her son yesterday. He was 22 and will be buried next Monday, which happens to be his 23rd birthday. I can't imagine what it's like to her right now. I was visiting with her and her family all day today. All of us feeling numb and in a state of shock. We can't even believe he is gone for good. J was smart, talented, and he enjoyed cooking, playing guitar and piano. He had bright blue eyes and a wonderful smile.

I wonder why God gives us these kinds of challenges in life? What is the purpose of dealing with this kind of intense suffering? Yet, one thing I have always told my dear friend is that she is one of the strongest people I have ever known. She's dealt with many obstacles but never wavered. She loved her son unconditionally and gave him all the support he could ever want and need. What a wonderful gift.

We will miss you J. RIP.